Spiritual Insight from Eckhart Tolle's Stillness Speaks
Have you ever realized how many of us are constantly trying to change something in our life because we aren’t happy with it?
Often we aren’t happy with ourselves, let alone with other people or some of the circumstances of our external life.
The result is that instead of enjoying a flowing, peaceful internal experience each and every day, we feel torn much of the time.
Some of us even feel at war with ourselves at times.
Says Eckhart Tolle in Stillness Speaks:
Whenever you are able, have a “look” inside yourself to see whether you are unconsciously creating conflict between the inner and the outer, between your external circumstances at that moment—where you are, who you are with, or what you are doing—and your thoughts and feelings. Can you feel how painful it is to internally stand in opposition to what is?
If you don’t feel peaceful within yourself, you can pretty much bet that at some level you are fighting with something that’s a part of your life right now.
The reality is that few people live from a settled, calm, peaceful state of being. Most aren’t truly happy with themselves, comfortable with themselves.
Yet our natural state is one of deep peacefulness.
We inherently love being who we find ourselves to be in our deepest being.
This doesn’t mean we are automatically going to like or enjoy everything in our external world, even everything about our own external person such as our size or looks.
Once we sink into the calm at our center, which is the essence of our being, we can accept the external realities of our life without feeling we have to fight them.
Acceptance doesn’t mean we necessarily want something to be the way it is, just that we aren’t in a state of resistance. Then, if something can be changed, we come from our calm center as we make changes—and the changes flow, instead of being a battle.
For instance, if you want to lose or gain weight and have been struggling with doing so, you no longer resist where you are on the scale. You don’t agonize about the fact you need to lose or gain. You embrace yourself as you are.
Then, arising from inner peacefulness, you may find yourself spontaneously wanting to make changes in your diet or exercise routine, which will come from the heart and therefore be free of the usual struggle.
Authentic change originates in inner stillness, not inner strife.
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